24 Emotionally Unavailable Memes for Avoidant Women Who Still Want Love

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Mar 16, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

"I am human and I need to be loved just like everybody else does," said Morrissey from The Smiths in their  1984 single How Soon is Now? The wildly popular British alternative rock band knew what they were talking about. Everyone needs love in the same way that we all need food, water, and shelter. But unlike food, water, and shelter, finding love isn't obvious or necessarily easy to come by. Some people spend their whole lives trying to find it but can't. Some people find it in their early 20s and can sail smoothly throughout the rest of their life with the one they love standing beside them the whole time. 

For others, trying to find love isn't just about finding that person who you get along with immensely well, it also takes vulnerability from you to open up to the point that you can be in love and loved back. Not everyone has the skillset to navigate opening themselves up. When you make yourself vulnerable to being loved, you also open up the possibility of being hurt as well. With a citadel surrounding your heart, it won't be easy to know how to open up truly.

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    I CANT, I NEED TO GO HOME AND FEED MY 6 CATS PLEASE STAY!
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  • 6 cats is a bit much, but animals can give nearly just as much love as a person. When in doubt, get a cat. When you can't find a man (or at least not the one you want) getting a cat or dog is a good second option. So for people who don't know how to date, find love, or attract a mate, just get a little kitty. 

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    "I'll get married only after I am emotionally stabile, financially independent, & my life is completely together": made with mematic
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    when I need to rant but don't want to tell anyone my problems me 0 me @lonerslifestyle
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    If you're single, stay single. There are people out here apologizing for taking a nap
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    How I sleep knowing that my EX is out there ruining someone else's life and not mine anymore
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    me listening to love songs while imagining a love I will never receive
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    When people ask me what I'm doing this weekend I don't have plans, but I'm not going. Fuckjerry
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    When you're hungry and someone tries to be funny
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    happiness is knowing you dont have to set an alarm for the next day
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    Me waking up to a "good morning beautiful" text when the beauty hasn't kicked in yet GIRLY ZAR
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    Thinking about all the things I wanna buy Girlzzzclub
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    I called out of work today. I need rest.
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    Me suddenly wanting to become the best. version of myself in the middle of the night:
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    I grew up thinking i was a Disney princess. Turns out I'm this lady
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    All I do is work and sleep but I never have any money and I'm always tired
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    When everyone thinks you're mean but you're just out here spreading tough love I'm an Intensive Care Bear.X
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    When you have alot of love to give but youre not very good at expressing it 0
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    when u check your messages and your favorite person hasn't replied in 3 hours OO
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    "It's up to you" pleeeease don't stress me out like this
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    My favourite part of the day is when I'm in my bed like this.
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    this is what I mean when I say I want an iced coffee 19 SAMA
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    me sending a risky message and ignoring the consequences for the next 24 hours
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    Me and my bestie before making a bad decision together
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    Me: You don't even care about my feelings like why are you alwa- Bae: "Do you wanna go to Sephora"? Me: makeupslaves
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